Virginity: Why The ‘First Time’ Really Matters

The U.S. researchers asked 331 young men and women about how they lost their virginity, including whether they felt scared, pressured, guilty or regretful.
They were also asked about how connected they felt to their partner, including whether they felt respected and loved, and how they felt afterwards.
The volunteers, who answered the questions anonymously, were then asked to fill in an online diary detailing any s*xual experiences they had over the next fortnight.
They were also asked how they would rate their s*xual relationships overall.
In more than two-thirds of cases, the volunteers said they were in a relationship when they lost their virginity.
Analysis of their answers showed that those who were most emotionally satisfied the first time still found their s*x lives the most fulfilling. The same was true of physical satisfaction.
A better first time also tended to lead to fewer feelings of disappointment, the Journal of s*x & Marital Therapy is to report.

Researcher Carrie Smith, of the University of Mississippi, said: ‘These results suggest that one’s first-time s*xual experience is more than just a milestone in development.

‘Rather, it appears to have implications for their s*xual well-being years later.’
Co-researcher Matthew Shaffer, of the University of Tennessee, said that while the study doesn’t prove that a better first time makes for a better s*x life in general, a person’s experience of losing their virginity may set the pattern for years to come.

‘The happier the experience initially, on the whole, the happier in future

5 Things About Women And Dating That Every Man Should Know

In today’s post I want to share five things about women every man should know, things I’ve learned along the way that might be useful to some of you.

5. Always Have A Plan
When you meet a woman who interests you, the first step toward carving out your own little space in her life is showing her that you can be relied upon. The easiest way to show her that you’re reliable is to tell her what you’re going to do and then do it. It starts with the little things. If you take her card and tell her you’ll email her the next day, email the next day. Be on time when you meet for drinks and when you decide to have your first official date, have it planned from beginning to end. She won’t tell you how much she appreciates it right away, but appreciate it she will. Having a plan and then knowing how to make it come together is one of the easiest ways to separate yourself from most of the men she’s encountered. Most women say they love spontaneity, but what they don’t tell you is that they want that spontaneity to be experienced within the confines of an executed plan. A good woman will follow you through the gates of hell as long as you have an exit strategy and as long as you told her that going through hell was part of the plan.
4. You Can’t Save Them All

Some Things Men Go Through In Life

Ladies will always have plenty things to say about womanhood, now read this and see what men go through in life.
1. You work your entire life makingmoney just to get a wife
2. You have to act tough no matter your fears
3. After buying a ring you will need to beg a woman to confirm whether you get married or not
4. You spend millions to make your wedding a success and your wife takes the glory
5. You work extra hours after marriage.
6. You give money for house keeping + food stuffs and you get to eat only dinner
7. No matter the degree you’ve acquired in education, You lose your worth if you fail to perform in bed
8. You work hard to make properties just to make a will for your wife and children
9. You spend your hard earned money to take your children to school and when they grow up they celebrate mothers’day.

PHOTO: Rihanna Nudé Photos Emerges

Rihanna was in her native country of Barbados last week to spend the holidays with her family. While on thebalcony of her hotel with the curtainswide open, Rihanna took off her bikini to put on her underwear.
There were paparazzi lurking around (which she was probably aware of) and they zoomed in their camera and captured Rihanna in all her glory.
The nud é photos have been released.

Samsung Galaxy S4 Specs: Device to Come With Unbreakable Screen

More and more rumors seems to be surfacing regarding the Samsung Galaxy S4 specs as the device is now supposed to feature an unbreakable screen.
Samsung is reportedly working on something called "Project J" that would have them release smartphones with unbreakable screens by April of next year.
Mark Newman, an analyst at Stanford Bernstein in Hong Kong, weighed in on Samsung's plans, confirming that a flexible or unbreakable display will make its way to a Samsung flagship device in the near future.
"Eventually, they'll (Samsung) have unbreakable and flexible displays," he said. "Either the Galaxy S4 or S5 will have unbreakable and even possibly flexible and foldable displays by 2014. That's going to be a game-changer."
The display on the Galaxy S4 is already rumored to be bigger. It will also have a higher resolution- pixel density jumps to 441 per inch from the Galaxy S3's 306 ppi, which is better than the iPhone 5's 326 ppi.
Samsung is major backer of the organic light-emitting diode better known as the OLED display. These OLED panels could be replacing their glass substrate with plastic material in order to make it sturdier and less breakable.
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The rumored processor for the Samsung Galaxy S4, the Exynos 5 5440, is already being tested, according to new evidence.
This new quad-core chip was discovered in Samsung test logs and is expected to be unveiled at this year's Mobile World Congress. The chip is also going to be used to create the next-generation Samsungflagship smartphone, the Galaxy S4.
A Korean source reported last monththat this will be the processor featured in the new smartphone when it launches next year.
This chipset will be faster than the one found in the Nexus 10 and will be made on a 28nm process.

Breaking News: Suicide Bombers Attack Airtel, MTN Offices In Kano

In what might be a stark reminder that this year's Christmas is going to be anything but peaceful, suicide bombers have attacked the offices of telecommunications giants, Airtel and MTN in Kano state.

A source close to joint security forces in the state, disclosed that one suicide bomber hit the premises of Airtel on Mallam Kato Square, killing one unidentified person.
"Its impact has affected Singer market which has now been closed down by the joint security forces" he added.
Sources also confirmed that about 30 minutes after the Airtel attack, another suicide bomber hit the MTN headquarters at Post Office Road in the state.
The number of casualty at MTN's office is yet to be confirmed but it was certain that staff and security officials on night shift are still in the office when the office was hit by the suicide bomber.
"There may be casualties, but at the moment I cannot disclose to you how many because we are still investigating the matter."
The area is now completely surrounded by the Joint Task Force (JTF) and movement is  restricted in the environ.
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Police officers, Civil Defence Corps members engage in public brawl (PHOTO)

The police officers accused the officers of the civil defence corps of interfering with their duties.
Some Nigerian police officers on Tuesday afternoon engaged in a public brawl with officers of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps at Berger roundabout in Abuja.
A witness, who did not want his name published, told PREMIUM TIMES that about ten police officers picked afight with three Civil Defence officers because they felt the latter were interfering with their duty.
"The police officers were trying to stop a vehicle and the Civil Defence people came to interfere, then the police officers who were more in number attacked them and started beating them up.
"I saw an officer using a whip on the Civil Defence guy while another pointed a gun at him," the witness said.
Another witness said there were sporadic gunshots with both parties lashing out at each other with whips.
"There were gunshots and then I sawa police officer flogging a Civil Defenceofficer with a whip while he was trying to run away," the witness, who would also not like to be named,said.
The fierce fight caused a major traffic gridlock at Berger Roundabout up to Utako Area of Abuja.
PREMIUM TIMES learnt that it took the intervention of a Divisional Police Officer from Utako Police Station to resolve the fracas.
When contacted, the spokesperson ofthe Abuja Police Command, Doris England, said she is not aware of the situation and would make inquires about it.
Efforts to reach Ms. England later, proved abortive as she did not pick orreturn calls made to her phone.
It has only been about six months since members of the Civil Defence Corps were allowed to carry arms.
The federal government on June 13, approved the carrying of arms by officials of the civil defence.
They move, it was said, was to assist other security personnel in the security of lives and property in the country.

Kaduna State Governor & 5 Others Die In Helicopter Crash

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A navy helicopter crashed Saturday in Bayelsa State, killing the Kaduna state governor and five other people.

Goodluck Jonathan said in a statement that the governor of the central Nigerian state of Kaduna, Patrick Yakowa, died in the helicopter crash in Bayelsa state in the Niger Delta.

The former national security adviser, General Andrew Azazi, also died in the crash, the statement said. Azazi was fired in June amid growing sectarian violence in Nigeria, but maintained close ties with the government. The other victims were aides to Yakowa and Azazi and the two helicopter pilots, it said.

President Goodluck Jonathan’s spokesman, Reuben Abati, said in a statement that their loss was “extremely painful to the entire nation.”

He said the president had ordered an investigation to determine the cause of the crash.

The crash occurred at about 3:30 p.m. after the navy helicopter took off from the village of Okoroba in Bayelsa state where officials had gathered to attend the burial of the father of a presidential aide, said Commodore Kabir Aliyu. He said the helicopter was headed for Nigeria’s oil capital of Port Harcourt when it crashed in the Nembe area of Bayelsa state.

May their souls Rest In Peace.

Tonto Dikeh Tells Yvonne Nelson her Vagina Is Wide As A Canal

super good waist, or he is good in bed, or his manhood is super abnormal in size or he’s just a lovely person hence his song ‘Your Waist’ as I wonder how and why she will get these tough ladies to fight each other in public.



I know you wondering too. But hey whatever Iyanya did to Yvonne must have broke ‘my-girl’ into pieces. Well she tweeted at Tonto Dikeh something really nasty and as much as we know Tonto she replied with something NASTIER!. Check out the photo below. As we are short of words. Not cool though, these stars should grow up.

iYanya all the way!!!

2face Speaks: Why I Had A Secret Wedding

Upon hearing about the engagement between 2face and Annie, the media went into a frenzy of speculations: How big of a society wedding will it be? Will the babymama’s be present at the wedding? Will a fresh wave of baby mamas emerge? Will Nigeria ladies lead a protest now that the most eligible bachelor has finally been snagged? All this speculations were ongoing when we were hit with yet another shocker: There had been a wedding!!!  A secret wedding!!! And all we had to show for it were two blurry photos:(
Ever since the wedding, many have speculated as to why the wedding was hurried and hushed. Annie being pregnant wasn’t a valid enough excuse, she had done it before. To lay our fears to rest, 2face finally broke his silence about the secret wedding. This what what he had to say:
“Annie is my first and true love. I had known her before I met the other women in my life. As a Christian, I had to marry one woman and it just had to be Annie. We had a secret wedding after we had reached an agreement and amicable understanding about the mothers of my children. It was a tough decision to make, one of the toughest in my life. 

“I secretly married her because I have so much respect for my other babies’ mothers; I cannot afford to hurt their feelings with a sudden society wedding with Annie, not now. I chose her above the others because she has been through it all with me“

Awww, how sweet and thoughtful of him…..

EFCC to declare Ex-Gov Abubakar Audu wanted For N4bn Fraud

Following the escape from arrest, of the former Kogi State governor, Abubakar Audu, by operatives of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, on December 11, 2012, the Commission has

concluded plans to declare him wanted.
The former governor, alleged to have fraudulently enriched himself to the tune of over N4 billion while he was governor of Kogi State between 1999 and 2003, fled when operatives of the Commission stormed his 32 Suleiman Barau street, Aso Villa, Asokoro Abuja residence in the early hours of today.
The latest effort to arrest the ex- governor followed a Supreme Court ruling of November 23, 2012, which dismissed the ex-governor's appeal to continue to protract his corruption trial by EFCC. The Supreme Court ruling therefore clears the way for his fresh arraignment.
It would be recalled that Audu was arrested in Jos in 2006 after a six months manhunt by operatives of the Commission, before his earlier arraignment at the Kogi state High Court on December 1, 2006, on an 80 criminal count charge of conspiracy, fraud, and criminal breach of trust and embezzlement of public fund.
The EFCC had, while the case lasted at the high court, cause issuance of nolle prosequi by the former Attorney- General of Kogi state, Dr. John Alewo Agbonika and the Attorney General of the Federation, Chief Bayo Ojo on February 8, 2007 for the case to be discontinued at the Kogi State High Court as the Commission claimed to have lost faith in the handling of the matter by the State High Court.
"In my capacity as the AG of Kogi state in collaboration with the AG of the Federation and by virtue of the power vested in me by Section 211 of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria 1999 and Section 253 of the CPC and all the powers enabling me in that behalf, I Dr. John Alewo Agbonika hereby inform this honourable court that I no longer intend to continue the prosecution of this case in collaboration with the AG of the Federation to whom I had given a fiat to prosecute this case", Agbonika, the former Kogi State Attorney General said.

Students attacked by Bees, Disrupt Exam At Adamawa Polytechnic

Students of Adamawa State Polytechnic, Yola were disrupted from their on-going second semester examination by a swarm of bees on Wednesday morning.

DailyPost gathered that the students scrambled out when the bees flew into the examination hall around 8.30am.

A victim said, “We were sent packing by bees this morning and we have to abandon the examination hall.”

Commenting on the incident, the Rector of the institution, Prof. Bobboi Umar, affirmed that the situation had been brought under control adding that the affected paper would be written in the afternoon.

“So far, things are okay and there is no case of serious injury to the students from the attack of the bees,” he said.

Some students have expressed their fears over the incident, believing that a very important personality or student of the school is about to die.

Some of the students who spoke with our correspondent, yet pleaded anonymous said that the bee invasion was a bad omen for the school even as they try to finish up with their semester examination.

Police Uncover Justin Bieber Murder Plot…$2,500 Offered For Each Of His Tésticles

Police have arrested two men for allegedly plotting a murder-for-hire, with the target none other than pop sensation Justin Bieber.

New Mexico natives Mark Staak and his nephew Tanner Ruane were arrested late last month in Vermont, and police claim they were planning on killing four people at the behest of a prison inmate named Dana Martin.

Martin was incarcerated for a 2000 murder, and was going to hire Staak and Ruane to kill two of the witnesses to his crime. Then, Martin wanted the two men to kill Bieber – apparently, Martin is obsessed with the singer and has a tattoo of Bieber on his leg.

The murder was supposed to occur in conjunction with Bieber’s concert at New York’s Madison Square Garden.

Martin wanted the men to kill Bieber by strangling him with a paisley tie, which is apparently Martin’s calling card. But the prisoner had second thoughts, and ratted out the two men to officers instead.

But it gets more grisly – Martin wanted the two men to castrate Bieber, and allegedly offered $2,500 (N394,175) a piece for his tésticles. Staak was arrested in Vermont on an outstanding warrant, and his nephew was later picked up in New York with pruning shears on his person – apparently in order to carry out the castration.

The Most Insulted Nigerian Public Figures In 2012

When we looked back at how different celebrities/politicians have been decorated with insults in 2012 on different reasons. Then we made a short list. They are:

1. Goldie _This diva was among the finalists for the BBA 2012. During the competition, she was having an affair with Kenyan Star Preezo. This did not go down well with some Nigerian audience of the show (maybe they believed that she was downgrading Nigeria via the act). After her eviction from the show, she received alot of insults on the internet.

2. GEJ _ He has been insulted more than any other president in the world in 2012. Wetin he do? Removal of fuel subsidy, not been able to get to the root of many probes, the list is endless.

3. Munachi _She celebrated her birthday recently & wore a dress which revealed some part of her bosom. This thing vex plenty of her fans cos she received some yabis ontop d mata. Some even say na market she dey advertise.

4. Diezani Alison Madueke _This woman is not a favorite among Nigerians. Since the time of the fuel subsidy removal, she's referred to as the Frog Eyed Woman. Wetin she do? You can state that.

5. Tonto Dike _Her new songs High & It's Over now have millions of views & downloads on internet. But it's like these songs earned her alot of hatred from music fans nationwide. She was renamed Toto Decay and a notable comedian even made jest of her recently.
Wetin she do? I can't really answer that but I know that she get many haters. Them say she no humble & she's sultry. From the time she tweeted that she will give N1million to anyone who know the meaning of her car's customised plate number 'Pokolo' (How the hell did she want people to know if she didn't say it). Need I say more about her cos you may get 'high until it's over'. Pls don't laugh!

Nigerian Girl/Sexx Worker Gruesomely Murdered In Italy

A Nigerian commercial sexxx worker identified as Franca Abumen, who lives in Rome, Italy, reportedly met her untimely death in the hands of yet to be identified men who brutally murdeerred her by tying her ankles and strangliiing her to dea th with a black cord, tied around her neck.

Franca Abumen

Franca, 27, was killed in the woods of Stifone, between Narni Waters, in Rome but her body was not found until after 24 hours on Sunday 10th of December, 2012 after her friends called reported her missing at the police station when she failed to return home from a night of work.
The police commands Carabinieri in Rome and Viterbo are working together to unmask the identities of Franca’s killers.